He who finds NOT she who seeks!!

More often than not, us women can find ourselves in the mode of being the first (in today's terms) to hop in a DM, asking a man would he like to take her out to dinner, etc. Sending sexy pics, etc. to appeal to a man we feel we want! This is all wrong!! What happened to us? When did we become the pursuer, or the chaser?? When we do this, we give a man an opportunity to just play with us and sex us, because we wanted him not the other way around right?? I know it's the 21st Century but some things just don't change. One of those things is the man being the chaser!!! Let him find you, let him court you!!! Make his ass step up, after all they are supposed to lead! When you get in a relationship don't let that change either!! He should still be courting you, doing little things to make your feel special, still pursuing. If you are in a relationship and find yourself constantly having to drop hints to get a date night, taken to dinner, or acting as if Valentine's day or your birthday really ain't a big deal, this is time for the chase to start again. Get sexy, go hang out, etc. A man that love you and is attracted to you will definitely have the instinct to hop back into his natural form of pursuer, not with another woman, but with you.

Let your husband find you, or you will find yourself constantly being bitter, heartbroken, and resentful when these relationships you put all the work and effort into don't last very long. My favorite movie is Love Jones, reason being is I fell in love with how Darius pursued Nina!! Are we too independent now that we don't allow this?

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